tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post2485234338871153530..comments2023-12-10T08:09:17.786+00:00Comments on Large blooming flower: What the hell is wrong with a girl in a silly pink dress anyway?Jennyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-83079955727090593652010-11-30T07:50:33.768+00:002010-11-30T07:50:33.768+00:00I'm sure my local Tesco has seen garments far ...I'm sure my local Tesco has seen garments far more flamboyant :)<br /><br />Looks as if you all had a good time at the weekend.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-51640523017544539332010-11-29T21:30:37.703+00:002010-11-29T21:30:37.703+00:00I'll dress as I like, if other people don'...I'll dress as I like, if other people <i>don't</i> like then that's their problem, not mine..!<br /><br />I probably <i>wouldn't</i> do a Tesco shop in this http://www.flickr.com/photos/ria_1039/5214942605/in/photostream/ but I reserve the right to..!<br /><br />Hmm, I feel a challenge coming on...!<br /><br />Much love,<br />Ria xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-21865158176364556652010-11-28T12:05:54.584+00:002010-11-28T12:05:54.584+00:00Stylish and understated, please! I can tell you do...Stylish and understated, please! I can tell you don't write marketing copy for a living. (shakes head/)<br /><br />A pink wig would certainly be eye-catching in the Brunel Centre.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-64660043087227982422010-11-28T02:38:19.490+00:002010-11-28T02:38:19.490+00:00I've often thought on pink wigs if its good en...I've often thought on pink wigs if its good enough for Britney Spears its good enough for me :-) <br />But seriously, congrats to Mikki from someone with a comparatively dull wardrobe.Lucie Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07099506232447224949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-55734725877941032962010-11-17T12:57:39.648+00:002010-11-17T12:57:39.648+00:00As I understand it, Grayson was quite snotty about...As I understand it, Grayson was quite snotty about transsexuality when he did a TV series a couple of years back (no telly, didn't watch)... another case of someone stepping in and telling everyone that we are what we are not, from a spurious position of authority.Druhttp://beingdrusilla.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-61534668448210429042010-11-17T11:17:45.344+00:002010-11-17T11:17:45.344+00:00There are times when I despair seeing Grayson Perr...There are times when I despair seeing Grayson Perry on the box. I don't know how Grayson identifies, but since he's happy to be known through his bloke persona I'm guessing it's different because he *is* portraying a bloke wearing a dress. Mikki's costume might have been similarly less easy to take seriously but the difference is she identifies as female full-time and is on her own path of transition.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-55345731922421679772010-11-16T17:57:46.210+00:002010-11-16T17:57:46.210+00:00How is Mikki's dress any different from Grayso...How is Mikki's dress any different from Grayson Perry's? He was taken perfectly seriously whilst he was dressed like a dolly on a entertainment tv prog a bit back.Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15268078877549938739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-87922180179261053562010-11-15T19:28:24.752+00:002010-11-15T19:28:24.752+00:00@Halle, Shirley Anne: I can excuse a member of the...@Halle, Shirley Anne: I can excuse a member of the public through ignorance, but I have a harder time with someone from within our own sphere.<br /><br />@Dru: You've just taken me back to the sound of 40 1970s children bellowing their way through the hymn book in an English country church. <br /><br />I hope our words were persuasive to the person who deleted their comments.<br /><br />@AJ: In my line of work senses are important, so I should have written that in a less ambiguous style. The first sense, in the context of being taken seriously by the commenters who annoyed me.<br /><br />I guess I'm not best qualified to comment on how seriously a woman is taken in the workplace based on her clothing. I have a brain that notices clothing for all the wrong reasons (or should that be the right reasons?) and where I work there are probably more women than men, women who seem to dress in whatever different styles suit their personal expression.<br /><br />But sadly it's true, too many minds spend too long in the gutter.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-46832560558914556652010-11-15T09:10:27.637+00:002010-11-15T09:10:27.637+00:00Point of clarification here....
"to be taken ...Point of clarification here....<br />"to be taken seriously as a woman one must dress only in the most conventional way".<br /><br />Do you mean: (to be taken seriously as a woman)one must dress only in the most conventional way?<br /><br />Because increasingly in the current economic climate I'm finding: (as a woman)to be taken seriously one must dress only as a man. <br /><br />I think both of those attitudes need blasting out of existence but, unfortunately, a lot of people still rely on "uniforms" to define others.MorningAJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04719744167307369768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-67186965716965242682010-11-15T08:59:45.667+00:002010-11-15T08:59:45.667+00:00What can I say? I have to agree with Halle though,...What can I say? I have to agree with Halle though, it's just the way things are. All of this comes from a lifetime of grooming by our parents and peers and we (the mainstream majority) tend to have pre-conceived ideas on many things. To put it bluntly we grow up with attitude and for the more sensible among us it becomes a new learning curve to undo the damage. Why can't people live and let live? People put it down to human nature but I say that isn't an excuse. Sad.<br /><br />Shirley Anne xxxShirley Annehttp://www.minkyweasel.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-91632279031670685492010-11-15T06:46:49.495+00:002010-11-15T06:46:49.495+00:00I see that one contributor to that thread has thou...I see that one contributor to that thread has thought better of it and deleted their comments. Fight the good fight....Dru Marlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03697874363783821382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-71525195201080412162010-11-14T22:25:08.401+00:002010-11-14T22:25:08.401+00:00I'd think if my goal was to distract an oppone...I'd think if my goal was to distract an opponent, wearing something unexpected would be good. <br /><br />Hmm, if I wear my fembot costume to the next golf tournament, that might put a few off their game... they might be put off lunch too... lol.<br />Come to think of it, I would probably lose my lunch while trying to swing the club. :-)<br /><br />I think the matter of whether one is taken seriously as a woman in such an outfit would be based on people's prior knowledge of your gender. Given no prior knowledge, assuming the outfit is effective, you are a woman. If you are known to be male by those who see you dressed in a 'costume', and they have no reason to think you are transitioning, then you will be seen as a man in a cute girl's outfit, cross-dressing.<br /><br />In my experience, within the main population base, ignorance is the rule and courtesy towards gender benders is hardly common.<br /><br />Harajuku district looks like a place I might feel at home in.Hallehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03847654451426257182noreply@blogger.com