tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post5198673140707970615..comments2023-12-10T08:09:17.786+00:00Comments on Large blooming flower: The Day After TomorrowJennyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-73765620275936940462015-09-29T22:03:59.497+01:002015-09-29T22:03:59.497+01:00Back home now. And friend texts me to tell me it&#...Back home now. And friend texts me to tell me it's done. Fortunately in the event I didn't have to go to the hospital itself, instead I dropped him off with a friend the night before, and had an enjoyable evening with a couple of my friends down at that end of the country.<br /><br />I think that horizon getting closer will occupy my thoughts a lot more over the coming years or months. Whether or not I take that step.<br /><br />There's someone I know in another sphere who's announced she wants to transition very fast. Is it wrong of me to be concerned for her because she's a very over-the-top weekend princess whose trans experience consists of wearing clothing that'd make a 16 year old blink, and picking up men in gay bars? I hope not, I'm afraid she'll fall on her face.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08027942517258679266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-83790584732299179322015-09-24T21:47:25.364+01:002015-09-24T21:47:25.364+01:00I do agree that there is a lot to be said for taki...I do agree that there is a lot to be said for taking it slow. I have some friends who are fully focused on surgery, a couple who don't seem to have thought beyond that. Me, I'm trying hard to just focus on the next decision, take it one stage at a timePaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12577631984995202146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4834395892091327520.post-36040988635648016312015-09-24T19:07:47.060+01:002015-09-24T19:07:47.060+01:00Regarding those rushing into GRS, I couldn't a...Regarding those rushing into GRS, I couldn't agree more. While, for me, it's something that I think about every day - no exaggeration here - and I do feel it would be right for me if other circumstances allowed it, I know a few who probably should have waited before having the procedure because their lives are now miserable. I do think it's too easy to "fool" someone who has a "professional certification" who has not specialized in gender dysphoria. I do think that those making the decisions should have been there and done that because I really think that only someone who is trans can truly understand someone who is trans.Caliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00280127011882954777noreply@blogger.com